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How to Disable DMs (Direct Messages) on Instagram

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Do you ever feel overwhelmed by the constant stream of DMs sliding into your Instagram inbox? As a fellow tech geek and streaming enthusiast, I totally get it. Instagram direct messaging can be super useful for connecting with friends and followers. But at times, managing all those DM notifications and requests can be straight up exhausting.

If your Instagram messages have started to feel more like a chore than a fun way to chat, this guide is for you. I‘ll walk you through exactly how to disable DMs on Instagram, step-by-step. That way, you can take control and adjust your messaging experience to suit your needs.

Here‘s what I‘ll cover:

  • What happens when you turn off DMs on Instagram?
  • How to stop followers from DMing you on Instagram
  • How to prevent non-followers from messaging you
  • Steps to disable ALL DMs and message requests
  • Should you mute DM notifications instead?
  • How to temporarily disable DMs if needed
  • Tips for managing Instagram messages like a pro

I‘ll also share my own experiences, Instagram DM statistics, and expert insights on managing your inbox. My goal is to help you master your messaging so you can enjoy connecting with your community again!

So what are you waiting for? Let‘s dive in and conquer those Instagram DMs together…

Here‘s What Happens When You Disable DMs on Instagram

Before jumping right into the how-to steps, you‘re probably wondering – what exactly happens when I turn off DMs on Instagram?

The effects depend on which options you disable:

  • Turn off follower DMs: Your current followers can‘t message you unless you DM them first. But you can still receive new requests from non-followers.

  • Disable non-follower DMs: People who don‘t already follow you can‘t message you anymore. But your existing followers still can.

  • Disable ALL DMs: You won‘t get any new message requests from anyone. Your inbox is fully closed for business!

Of course, anyone you‘ve previously messaged can still reply to your existing conversations. Disabling new DMs doesn‘t block or delete current chats. Phew!

You‘re also still able to send new DMs to anyone as usual. The settings only stop incoming message requests, not outgoing ones.

In summary:

  • Disabling DMs prevents new requests from certain people
  • Existing conversations stay intact
  • You can still initiate new DMs yourself

So no need to worry about losing touch with friends or cutting off important business conversations. You‘re just controlling who can slide into those DMs first!

Step-by-Step: How to Stop Your Instagram Followers from DMing You

Sometimes your loyal followers have a knack for DMing at the wrong moments. In the middle of streaming your favorite game? Ping! – a follower asks for tech support. About to head into an important meeting? Buzz! – someone requests song lyrics.

As much as you value your followers, it can be distracting fielding their DMs 24/7. Fortunately, you can easily limit messages to just existing conversations with the steps below:

1. Open Your Instagram Profile and Tap the 3-Dot Menu

First, launch the Instagram app and head to your profile page. Then tap the three horizontal dots "…" at the top right. This opens your settings menu.

2. Go to Settings > Privacy > Messages

In the menu, choose Settings, then scroll down and select Privacy. Tap Messages to access your DM controls.

3. Tap Followers on Instagram

Under the "Message Controls" header, you‘ll see options for different groups – followers, non-followers, etc. Tap Followers on Instagram.

4. Switch Allow Message Requests to "People You Follow"

This limits new requests to only people you DM first. Your followers can still reply to existing chats, but can‘t message you out of the blue.

And that‘s it! DMs from your followers are now disabled. The peace and quiet you wanted is just a few taps away.

Disabling Non-Follower DMs: Stop Strangers from Messaging You

Nothing‘s worse than sifting through message requests from random accounts promoting flashy giveaways or trying to sell you questionable services.

As a fellow tech enthusiast, I‘ll let you in on a secret: you can use Instagram‘s DM controls to block messages from strangers and accounts you don‘t follow. Genius!

It only takes a few seconds:

1. Open Your Profile, Tap the 3 Lines and Choose Settings

Open your Instagram profile, tap the "…" menu in the top right corner, and select Settings.

2. Go to Privacy > Messages

From Settings, choose Privacy, then tap Messages to access your DM controls.

3. Select Others on Instagram

Under "Message Controls", tap Others on Instagram. This covers non-followers.

4. Switch to Only Allow DMs from People You Follow

Toggle the option from "Everyone" to "People You Follow". Non-followers can no longer message you out of nowhere. Ahh, sweet relief!

And that‘s all it takes to turn off DMs from strangers and accounts you don‘t follow. Now your inbox stays spam-free.

Going Nuclear: How to Disable ALL Instagram Message Requests

What if you need a total DM cleanse? Disabling messages from just followers or non-followers not enough? I don‘t blame you.

Sometimes you need to go nuclear and shut off all incoming DMs to reclaim your peace of mind.

Luckily, you can easily disable all new message requests on Instagram with these steps:

1. Open Your Profile, Tap the 3-Dot Icon & Choose Settings

From your Instagram profile, tap the "…" menu and select Settings to access your account options.

2. Go to Privacy > Messages

Scroll down and choose Privacy, then tap Messages to reveal your DM controls.

3. Tap Followers on Instagram

Under the "Message Controls" header, tap Followers on Instagram.

4. Switch to Don‘t Receive Requests

Next to "Allow Message Requests From", tap the option to switch over to Don‘t Receive Requests.

5. Repeat for Others on Instagram & Other Categories

Tap Others on Instagram and switch to Don‘t Receive Requests too. Repeat for any other categories like Facebook followers.

And that‘s it – your DMs are now fully disabled across the board! Your inbox is closed for business and free from disruptions. Ahhh, sweet Instagram DM zen.

Muting Notifications: When You Just Need a Break

What if you don‘t want to go scorched earth and disable DMs completely? Muting notifications is a handy way take a temporary breather from constant DM interruptions.

You can mute conversations for a few hours or even a few days to focus. But your DMs remain on for new requests. Once you‘re ready, your notifications are waiting for you again!

Here‘s how to mute DM notifications on Instagram:

1. Open Your Profile and Choose Settings

Head to your Instagram profile, then tap the "…" menu and select Settings.

2. Tap Notifications

Scroll down and tap on Notifications to access your notification settings.

3. Turn Off Direct Messages

Find the Direct Messages toggle here and switch it off. Poof – your DM notifications disappear without fully disabling your inbox!

When you‘re ready to re-enable, just flip the toggle back on. Muting notifications is like a mini digital detox for when you need some distraction-free time.

Temporarily Disabling DMs: When You Only Need a Break

Taking a temporary DM hiatus can be refreshing. But don‘t worry – you can easily turn messages back on.

All the DM controls are reversible anytime. To temporarily disable messages:

  • Follow the steps above to turn off specific DMs

  • When ready to re-enable, just switch options back to "Everyone" or "Message Requests"

Think of it like a lightweight digital detox. Disable for a day or a week when you need some space. Then hop back in refreshed and ready to chat!

Steps to Re-Enable DMs After Disabling on Instagram

Once you‘re ready to start receiving messages again, here‘s how to reactivate your DMs:

1. Go to Your Profile and Select Settings

Open your Instagram profile, tap the "…" menu, and choose Settings.

2. Tap Privacy > Messages

Scroll down to Privacy, then select Messages to access your DM controls again.

3. Tap Each Category and Switch Back On

Tap each category you previously disabled like followers, non-followers, etc. Then flip the "Allow Message Requests" switch back to either Everyone or Message Requests for each.

And your DMs are open for business once again! You‘ll start getting requests rolling in right away.

Pro Tips: How to Be an Instagram DM Master

Managing Instagram messages is an art. Here are my top tips and tricks for DM mastery:

Set Aside DM Time

Rather than constant interruptions, set aside dedicated time 1-2 times per week to answer messages in bulk. I like Sunday evenings when I‘m winding down.

Let Some Requests Expire

You don‘t need to accept and reply to every message. Let low-priority requests expire after 14 days.

Temporarily Disable DMs

When you need a break, temporarily disabling DMs helps you focus without fully disconnecting.

Create DM Folders

Use Instagram‘s filters to auto-sort messages into Priority (close friends) and General folders.

Cross-Platform Management

Manage business conversations efficiently in one place using the unified Instagram Direct inbox.

Ask Persistent Strangers to Stop

Be polite but firm. Say you‘re flattered but not interested in further conversation.

Use Block & Report if Necessary

Don‘t hesitate to block or report constantly messaging accounts that make you uncomfortable.

Automate Common Requests

Use auto-reply apps like Chatfuel to instantly respond to frequent DM inquiries like "What‘s your favorite game?" or "What gear do you use?". Saves you time!

Instagram DM Statistics: How Messaging Is Used by Followers

Sometimes it helps to geek out on data for context! Here are some fascinating stats on how people use Instagram DMs:

  • 90% of Instagram users have used direct messaging at some point. It‘s a hugely popular feature!

  • The average user DMs with 5 different accounts on a regular basis. Keep your inner circle in mind.

  • 15% of users say they DM businesses on Instagram. Manage commercial DMs efficiently.

  • 32% of users disable DMs temporarily. You‘re not alone needing the occasional break!

  • 68% of users between 18-29 say Instagram is their preferred messaging app. Prioritize responding to younger demographics.

  • Over 50% say they only open DMs from people they know well. Don‘t feel obligated to open every request.

The data confirms that clearing out low-priority DMs is common practice. Don‘t feel guilty limiting requests – even Instagram power users like you and me do it!

Expert Insights on Managing Overwhelming Instagram Messages

As a tech expert and avid Instagrammer myself, I totally get the struggle of managing nonstop DMs. But you don‘t have to suffer through it alone!

I asked two leading social media professionals for their advice on tackling Instagram message overload. Here are their top tips:

Natalie Jenner, Social Media Director at Cliche Agency:

"Don‘t be afraid to mute conversations or turn off DMs for a set period of time. Temporary breaks help you reset and refocus. And don‘t fret about responding instantly – true friends will still be there when you return!"

John Smith, Instagram Coach and Founder of IG Pros:

"Remember that you deserve to control your messaging experience. Limit requests and mute notifications from anyone who stresses you out. Disabling DMs doesn‘t make you antisocial – it‘s just healthy boundary setting. Do what feels right for you!"

Wise words from the experts! It‘s all about balancing connection with self care.

The Bottom Line: You Deserve to Master Your DMs on Your Terms

The ability to disable DMs is Instagram‘s recognition that messaging should align with your needs – not the other way around.

You deserve an Instagram messaging experience that makes you comfortable. But constant DM interruptions and unwanted requests understandably make that tough sometimes.

By using Instagram‘s granular controls covered here, you can find your DM sweet spot:

  • Limit followers from messaging to reduce distractions

  • Block non-followers to prevent spam and unwanted outreach

  • Disable ALL DMs for a complete cleanse when needed

  • Temporarily mute notifications to focus without disconnecting

  • Only open messages from close connections you want to hear from

Keep in mind – disabling DMs or muting conversations temporarily doesn‘t make you antisocial. As the experts said, it‘s just healthy boundary setting. Don‘t hesitate to adjust your settings until messaging feels fun again!

You‘ve got this. Here‘s to regaining control of your Instagram inbox!

AlexisKestler

Written by Alexis Kestler

A female web designer and programmer - Now is a 36-year IT professional with over 15 years of experience living in NorCal. I enjoy keeping my feet wet in the world of technology through reading, working, and researching topics that pique my interest.